Many men try to keep the peace by staying silent, but real peace comes from understanding what we feel, not avoiding it. Learning to name and share your emotions helps you reconnect. With yourself and with the people you love.

The STOPP skill helps you pause before reacting, so you can respond instead of regret. Learn how this simple DBT tool can help you manage emotions, build self-awareness, and improve relationships.

Written by Evan Vukets, RCC , Registered Clinical Counsellor in Abbotsford, BC. I support men in Abbotsford, the Fraser Valley, and online across BC. Learn more about me You can go days without food. Hours without sleep. But only a few minutes without breath. When stress hits, most men don’t notice their breathing. It becomes short, shallow, and tight, especially in the chest and shoulders. Your body is preparing for a threat, even if that threat is an inbox full of emails o

If your body feels constantly tense or “on,” you’re not alone. Progressive Muscle Relaxation is a simple tool that helps men release stress, sleep better, and reset. Learn how this proven method, used by engineers, businessmen, veterans and counsellors alike can help you unwind and find calm again.