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All of the following blog posts were written by Evan Vukets, RCC, MCP.


The Drill Sergeant in Your Head: When Shame Sounds Like Motivation
For many men, shame does not sound like shame. It sounds like discipline, high standards, and the voice telling you to keep pushing. The problem is that the drill sergeant rarely lets a victory count. Learn how shame driven motivation works, what it can cost over time, and how to pursue meaningful goals without needing to tear yourself down along the way.
22 hours ago11 min read


Healthy Relationship Communication: Moving from Gridlock to Dialogue
Some men argue. Others avoid conflict altogether. Surprisingly, both can become stuck in the same place. Learn how moving from gridlock to genuine dialogue can transform the way you communicate in your relationship.
Aug 59 min read


Why Shame Keeps Addiction Alive, And What to Do Instead
Shame is one of the strongest forces keeping addiction alive, yet it is often mistaken for motivation. Learn why shame fuels the cycle, how it affects the nervous system, and why recovery works better when you move toward something meaningful instead of simply trying to avoid failure.
Jul 278 min read


Relapse Is Not Failure: How to Get Curious Instead of Crushed
A relapse can feel like everything has fallen apart. But it does not erase your progress. This article explores why relapse is better understood as information than failure, and how getting curious instead of crushed can strengthen recovery moving forward.
Jul 98 min read


What Is Harm Reduction? A Different Way to Think About Substance Use
Many people assume addiction counselling is only for people who have hit rock bottom. Harm reduction offers a different starting point. This evidence-based approach helps build awareness, reduce harm, and create more intentional choices around alcohol or substance use before things become a crisis.
Jun 249 min read
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